>>1794
>I just don't buy this…
Shit isn't absolute. Every human is more intelligent than my pet crocodile, and most would say more attractive, and still some people are jacking it to crocoporn. Thinking it in terms of "some people just have sexual appeal innately" is extremely unhealthy and misguided. You know people can get smarter or dumber depending on education/blunt force to head?
Regarding to the caring warrior stuff:
Different species have different sexual selection strategies which mainly fall into 2 categories, tournament species and pair bonding species. Deciding which strategy the species go for isn't entirely genetic, having both strategies expressed all over the animal kingdom suggests that most species have genes for both, getting activated or deactivated depending on the environment.
Now, the problem is, human enviroment is chaotic as fuck. Most media would tell you humans were tournament species (alpha male takes it all), and yea, some people have genetic inclination towards that stuff. Then again in reality most people at least try to form long monogamic relationships (pair bonding), many being successful and happy.
The point being, there's no one size fits all solution. Even outside those categories there's much to explore, and for humans there is no "natural" way to go about it since we haven't been natural for a while. Listening to anybody on how you should go about it is dumb since you may have no idea what kind of weirdo this world actually molded you into. Radiation is going up, it's time for mutants.